Its a weird feeling when called selfish by some one trusted so much,
to whom we have done so much with out expecting a return.
I just tried to Introspect and retrospect if i really was one. because of a incident which i cant write here.
finally ended up analysing, People who are close and in equal terms (career, thinking.....) cannot digest the fact That other person is going away from him. n he has access to better things, he starts speculating thinking that he is growing in all terms. but never tries to know the fact, Instead starts mongering that the person is selfish, He lives in self denial, never tries to know the facts, but slips His tongue, What ever he may be in Life...
We never know, however wise we are in life, what ever positions we held in past, we think small in such situations calling cheap names behind their backs, from whom we took favours. Why do we become Unwise at times.
Answer is we are Human beings..
I am no saint, i have done it in past in younger ages, but i was surprised, when done by a grown adult. whom i trusted so much.
Well such things do happen, and we need to move on, as i said we are just Human beings
Lokaa Samastha sukhino bavanthu
Labels: Experiences, Life
Arjun said...
yeah.. u said it..
Sometimes situations make people do all sorts of things...... Matured people realize that faster...
Cheers..!!
Arjun
January 30, 2009 at 4:53 PM
Anonymous said...
Indiblogger told me you read my blog.
Thanks for that.
About selfishness, I must tell you selfishness is the virtue, selflessness is falsehood and corruptness.
Man is selfish by nature, he seeks to maintain and develop existence, it is this strength by which he earns and learns ethics.
Now selfishness can be rational, or irrational.
Rational selfishness makes a person honest, hard working, self-reliant, independent and true.
Irrational selfishness make him masquerade as selfless, dishonest, unethical, thief and moocher.
Need is to be reasonable, be rational.
Please look it up at this
Altruistic paradox
Look for other articles too, you will get above the confusion.
Goodluck!
January 31, 2009 at 3:28 AM
Mel Harkin said...
I feel you my dear friend.
It's what I always say to everybody: The happiness of a friend delights us. It enriches us. It doesn't take anything away from us. In case that the friendship suffers with that, then there was never true friendship there.
Todd told me the other day that a wise person once told him: Always keep your words soft and sweet, you might have to eat them some day.
I guess same applies, huh!? ;-)
Always take care my good friend!
Mel
January 31, 2009 at 7:21 AM
Preeti Shenoy said...
Oh yes..It hurts. Especially when the person is close to you.
Cheers
preeti
May 9, 2009 at 4:33 AM
Sunil Kosuru said...
@ preeti shenoy : yeah it really hurts when the person is close, but now i feel gulity of publishing this post, that friend of mine realised his mistake and appologised. i fell i got carried over
May 11, 2009 at 4:01 AM
Mel Harkin said...
I miss your writing, my friend! ;-)
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Anonymous said...
Hey ur thoughts r 100% true, it happens in everyones life... Since v r human beings, v have already learnt the art of moving on rather than worryin abt the situation... I want all of them to realize it but stayin on the primary posistion, v got to realize it faster...
August 7, 2009 at 7:50 AM
Suhasini B.S. said...
Ur thoughts r 100% true, it happens in everyone's life... Since v r human beings, v have learnt the art of moving away rather than analyzing & solving the particular situation! I wish all people would realize there mistakes at the right time, but since v r in the primary position, v got to realize it faster...
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