She has come a long way....

From four walls of kitchen, from being an object of attraction, from sacrificing her life in the form of sathi, women in India has come a long way.

From the days when a birth of girl child in a family was considered to be bad Omen, extra burden. things have changed.

I see a sea of difference in their approach and attitude at least in urban india. in 80's nd early 90's one can observe college going girls in sarees n salwars head bent. with books close to chest. correcting their pallus all time. its totally opposite now, mobile hand set, low waist jeans, u staring at me. oh thts a compliment, who cares!

She is choosing careers, which was impossible for women few decades back, from defence to police, flying aircrafts,media to politics.

Well what will u attribute these changes to, I think its the education upto grass root level in india which has brought so many changes. they are studying, choosing careers, Earning, they are empowered & freedom to take decissions.

If any thing's wrong in her marriage she goes for divorce, she is confident enough to lead her life. In rare instances, she also takes services of Gigolos'. she goes for one night stand in all girl pub to witness a male striptease.

Odd things apart, Women according to me is the beautiful creativity by almighty in this nature. Even though having few inabilities because of physiological design. she competes equally with her opp gender. she sacrifies so much in her life cycle, she undergoes so many difficulties during a child birth, which is like a rebirth for them selves considering the complicality.
Much need to be done in rural areas, where they still face discrimination.

One good thing in india is having a women leading the Govt in capacity of chairperson and a women president, Finance minister has gone for gender budgeting. with lot of goodies to women. of course tht was to secure women votes.

Well women u deserve equal parity, u are no less than men. long live womanhood.
On the eve of International women's day, I wish every one a Happy Women's Day.
(P.S - I am not in love nor i am obsessed with woman)

27 comments:

Wow.........a nice writing!!

If men like you realize, and get adjusted to live up with the emerging competitive spirit of women, the world would be a much better place to live in, without any scope for gender bias.
Happy Women's Day!!

March 7, 2008 at 12:34 PM  

i am no anti-feminist

but look at America, women "liberation has" killed it

March 7, 2008 at 12:59 PM  

our country definitely can brag on some stats to boost upon how advanced we have become ... but the fact remains the growth has been limited to particular sectors n regions ... its been more of a haywired n unplanned growth not touching sections of society that matter the most ...

March 7, 2008 at 1:05 PM  

I agree with u.... Women’s should be given equal respect.... But not for the 21st century womens.... They don’t know the meaning of Relationship, love, money and life.... They think what they are doing is right, but all the time its wrong... This post is for "80% posh women" not for the 80s and 90s…. I request them not to give more preference to money its not all….
But still I like the kindness and caring of them……
Happy women's day!!!!!!!

March 7, 2008 at 1:13 PM  

Firstly , I think the above person has gone through rough times wit a girl...:)

Coming to ur blog , I agree that women have come a long way....
But , I fear it's only in the urban setup....
Time and awareness could change the situation in the rural parts as well...
We'll hope it'll change further for the better....
HAPPY WOMAN's DAY..!!

Cheers..!!
Arjun

March 7, 2008 at 1:35 PM  

Good Work AnAya .......U Rock :-)

"It's so clear that you have to cherish everyone. I think that's what I get from these older black women, that every soul is to be cherished, that every flower is to bloom."

"Every woman, if forced to, can do more than she ever thought she could. In running my business I just used common sense, a man would call it "horse sense."

March 7, 2008 at 3:45 PM  

"Let us be patient with one another,
And even patient with ourselves.
We have a long, long way to go.
So let us hasten along the road,
The road of human tenderness and generosity.
Groping, we may find one another's hands in the dark." :-)

"Far away there in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow where they lead."
"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." :-)

March 7, 2008 at 3:50 PM  

hi sunil....this is grt!!!!

It should read by every men to change their view on women.

"Naturally women are great carriers of value systems,thy r competetive in every fields to men.They can could play a key role if they expand their role beyond their traditional ones."

Lets praise them and wish them for future:- "HAPPY WOMENS DAY":)

March 7, 2008 at 4:18 PM  

nice insight!
its true that the educational and lifestyle scenario of urban women are slightly better than their rural counterparts, but according to some statistics, more % of rural woen are working , being engaged mostly in self-help groups.

why did u put the p.s section ? to act as a disclaimer? thats where men need to broaden their views, to look up to women not just as members of opposite sex

March 7, 2008 at 5:16 PM  

its a nice entry to let your thoughts out!
cheers and keep blogging

March 7, 2008 at 9:15 PM  

wow awesome....!!

beautifully written

March 8, 2008 at 8:43 PM  

are you in love? rs
hugs

March 8, 2008 at 8:46 PM  

well one thing is for clear..we must not leave this issue to only 1 day..ie.. women's day but the same thing should be understood by every one..nice post

March 8, 2008 at 9:07 PM  

True that women have come a long way.. but still there is a long way to go.. the scene in rural areas hasn't changed much ..

March 8, 2008 at 9:43 PM  

education has indeed empowered women to be at par with men as far as growth is concerned. education in rural areas will hopefully do the same in rural areas as well..

however i refuse to accept that going for divorces, abortions, hiring the services of gigolos, having one night stands, etc are signs of an em,powered woman. these are on the contrary signs that our adaptability and adjusting natures have deteriorated, and we will do anything for instant gratification. what then, is the difference between man and animal?

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March 9, 2008 at 9:37 AM  

nice post..though i have already commented..

March 9, 2008 at 11:26 AM  

the tribute seemed really heartfelt..bt i kinda wonder y isnt there any Men's Day?

March 10, 2008 at 4:14 PM  

Nice Post :) Great reading !!


keep up the gud work

Mohan S World

March 10, 2008 at 6:07 PM  

Brilliant Blog Dude!!

Keep it up!

March 11, 2008 at 4:21 PM  

nice post yet again but plz do tell me how the hell i am voilating the blogger community rules

March 11, 2008 at 7:08 PM  

Very nice thinking and way of presenting ur thoughts, really : keep up the good work !!!!

March 11, 2008 at 9:36 PM  

But do you think women are really thought to be equals??? Come on whats with men lurching at us at all times...??? The groping in crowded areas?? and all the other subdued forms of insults....

How many fathers will happily pull their daughters out of school to keep the son education going??

There is progress no doubt but we do have a long way to go

March 11, 2008 at 9:41 PM  

g8 yaar wow what a anti feminist hmmm


but the fact remains the growth has been limited to particular sectors n regions ..

March 12, 2008 at 9:48 PM  

LOVE A WOMAN AND HUMANITY WILL LOVE U.SO IT'S GUD THT U SOON START LOVING A WOMAN. COZ A WOMAN CN NT ONLY ROCK D CRADLE BUT ALSO D WORLD WITH HER INTEGRITY.

March 13, 2008 at 12:42 PM  

nice one to write on the eve of women's day.. i must say now that women are less than men in no way..

March 13, 2008 at 4:20 PM  

whtever u ve written is gr8 no doubt..
my neighbour's maid has a daughter who is she s 15 yrs old, a widow.. has a son to feed and her entire life ahead. I am from no village. women have indeed come a long way.. may be in other countries.. but in india.. theres a really long road ahead!

March 15, 2008 at 4:20 PM  

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